Take Time to Care for yourself

Posted: 11th September 2011 by Sandi in Hot Mamma

Start today by taking inventory on what you do everyday to your body or don’t do. Then agree to make one change a week. For example if you go to bed every night without removing your makeup and washing your face then make that your weeks goal. “I will remove my makeup and wash my face before bed every night for one week” or “I will exfoliate once a week to get rid of dry skin” Every week add a new change and before you know it you are becoming a healthier you!

Here is a great exfoliate with a southwestern flair

Lavender Pinon Body Scrub

½ cup raw sugar

¼ cup walnut oil

1tab. Pinon Nuts, chopped fine

1 tsp. of dried untreated Lavender or lavender oil

Stir together all ingredients until well mixed. Place in a sealed jar and use as a body scrub in shower. Damp a washcloth and a small amount of scrub using circular motions over body to remove dead skins, rinse.

Note Pinon seeds (pine nuts) are found in New Mexico and can be purchased online or in some specialty grocery stores. Hatch Chili Express has New Mexico products http://www.hatch-chile.com/default.asp

 

Recently my son and I were at the mall and we decided to use the elevator. The door opened and everyone filed out and it was time for us to get on. There was a family with a small boy and a stroller so my son held the door for them
to get on. Then he pushed the button and off we went. When the door opened he repeated the same, he held the door so the door did not close on them as they exited. They did not say a word to him for his kindness, which was fine, no big deal. However, they saved the big deal for later.

After hours of shopping we went to the food court to eat lunch and after I went to the restroom. My son waited in the hall. While he was waiting for me the same family from the elevator passed him and their son recognized my son
and said “Hi”. The father begins scolding his son for speaking to mine. He said things like “Don’t you talk to him, he is bad” and made comments he was a skater and maybe on drugs. When my son told me I could not believe it and he
was obviously hurt by it.

Skateboarding is not a bad influence on our youth, bad people are a bad influence on our youth and they do not discriminate as to what type of kid they want to influence. Skateboarding actually is a very good influence. It teaches
them perseverance; it challenges them and keeps them active.

Not to mention skateboarding is a professional sport with endorsements and fame just like basketball or football.

Now I know Skateboarding has been associated with drugs and alcohol for many years and it can be a pretty tough crowd. I have attended skate competitions and I have met all types of interesting and scary people. But I really believe that bad influences exist in every social class and group. I believe with today’s pressures any kid can fall to the hands of drugs and alcohol.

I bet you did not know that there are several wonderful pro skaters out there providing our kids great role models and encouraging them to make a difference? Tony Hawk is a family man and supports numerous charities. Paul Rodriquez Jr. is religious and donates skateboards to cancer charities. Jereme Rogers is religious and promotes spreading the word of god. RyanSheckler donates to a variety of charities supporting children and athletes. There are many more skaters making a difference.

My point is this, before assuming all long hair skaters are out to steal your soul, take a closer look. You may find a nice young man who is willing to hold a door for you, give his seat up on a crowed bus or help an elderly
neighbor. With all kids the key is taking the time to be involved, know their friends and don’t be afraid to investigate. Set clear guidelines and expectations and hold them accountable for their actions.

Again I am a proud mother of a drug & alcohol free Skater!

Can’t-Wait-to-Skate Onesies for your future skater: http://www.lilboyblu.com/item_534/Cant-Wait-to-Skate.htm

Okay so this is funny, I was cleaning the bathroom and in our bathroom we have a magazine rack. I am the only person who goes through the magazines and gets rid of the old ones. Well for some reason we started
receiving GQ a magazine for men in the mail. I have no idea how or why I am receiving this magazine. It must be a bonus from one of the many other magazines I order and have delivered to the house. I did not pay for it, but it
keeps showing up with my name on it.

So in the April issues (I was going to throw out) there was an article by Kelly Oxford, entitled Sex trade (stopped cleaning and started to read). The article discusses how in the beginning of you relationship it’s all about
the physical attraction having sex all the time and everywhere. However, like everything else it gets old and familiar and before you know it the sex is gone. What’s a girl to do?

Well as suggested in the article Sex Bartering can make for an exciting new take on taking out the trash. Your using non sexual favors as a negotiating tool  for sex later. The idea behind the sex bartering is to make sex in the relationship more thrilling and exciting again. (Whoop-Whoop)

I guess if you have a good marriage with strong communication skills and you want to spice up your love life a bit, this maybe one way to do it. But, I do believe couples need to have ground rules and still do things for each other without having to have something in return. Couples should always keep in mind it is a tool for spicing up their marriage and that it is meant to be fun. I can see the excitement factor of it and I really hate cooking, sooooo……….. hummm!!!

What’s your take on this? Would you do this for fun in a relationship? I am curious what people think about this subject.  Share :-)

Okay, enough with the name calling! You know what I mean, when your looking in the mirror taking inventory of all the things that are wrong. For example, there are times when I think “Girl where’s the beeper, my ass is getting so big”! (then I grab a Starbucks coffee with whip cream and life is all good). Seriously, we all do it as women, we compare ourselves to magazine models, remember when times, and almost anyone younger than ourselves.
Why?

We are all beautiful, loving, caring women who are successful in our own right. Yes, we have a few flaws, a few extra pounds (blame kids), and poor diets because our to-do-list is a mile long. But, we are still amazing, sure we need to work on things but we need to do it in a positive way.

So, you have heard about positive thinking and how it works. Right? Thinking positive affects your brain which affects your heart which encourages change. Today pick up a small grease board or cork board and hang it
on or near your bathroom mirror or your most frequent area. If you spend more time in the kitchen place it there. If you’re at your desk most of the day hang it there. The idea is to see the board throughout your day or first thing in
the morning and right before bed.  Now each night write a positive message to yourself and read it often. When you
wake up read it out load and remember it as you go about your day. Examples of positive words/phrases are.

· I am Beautiful

· I am Smart

· I am Talented

· I will rock my meeting today

· My smile will light up the room today

Man my Cleavage looks good in this shirt ;o)

· I Rock Baby

· Today I will kick butt

· Hot & Sexy you Know it!

The Idea is to feel good about yourself and your day. Confidence radiates from people who feel good about themselves. These messages should mean something to you and encourage you to be your best. Let’s do this
together and change our internal dialogue and stop focusing on our negatives and bring out our positives. As moms we are always supportive, encouraging and optimistic when our children come to use with uncertainties in their lives. We need to love ourselves as much as we love our children. We need to see the bigger picture, because we can achieve our goals!

Tell us your positive message to yourself, what motivates you?

IRON BABY

Posted: 3rd June 2010 by Sandi in Moms Uncensenored

By: Hank Gordon
A lot of people seem to think that an organic garden is just for hippies and vegetarians. They think it is a difficult and hard way to grow vegetables and flowers while in fact they could not have been further from the truth. Having an organic garden is not difficult at all and it certainly is not just for hippies and vegetarians. When you know that most organic fertilizers are made from animal products you will understand that vegetarians need to be very careful with organic gardening.

Owning a organic garden is not hard at all the only thing where you should be aware of is that you do not use synthesized products. You can use normal seeds and plants they do not need to be organic at all. The only seeds you can not use are genetically modified seeds.

The same people who think that having an organic garden makes you a hippie also often think that your organic garden needs to be animal friendly. Well most gardeners also those who have an organic garden are not always the greatest friends of the local wildlife. And be honest would you be, when your carefully grown crops are being eaten by some rabbits?

There are all kind of gardeners and those that have a organic garden will never use chemicals or pesticides but some are known to shoot a rabbit occasionally, to scare it away or to eat it. A more natural meal is hard to find.

Is an organic garden the same as a natural garden?

A natural garden does not exist, every garden is in fact artificial when you are the one that decides what to grow and at what place in contrary to nature where nothing is planned. a organic garden is not a natural garden if we have land where we let nature do its thing we usually do not call it a garden we call it wasteland. In our gardens we like to decide what are considered weeds and what we consider to be plants or flowers and a organic garden is no different. If our organic garden is suffering from drought you would be crazy not to water those carefully planted flowers and vegetables. As you can see an organic garden also takes some unnatural growing methods.

Vegetarians who own a organic garden should be aware that many of the
fertilizers and other organic garden products contain animal products like fish oil, leather and bone. They need to read all the ingredients on these products.

Although it is not necessary to call your garden an organic garden a very good and “natural” way to control bugs and pest is to mix specific plants together, if you do some research you learn that by placing for example onions and carrots together you will reduce pests and insects. Sometimes you can even use certain weeds to repel bugs and pests. You can also use insects like ladybugs to reduce louse, the ladybugs eat the louse and your organicly grown roses will be more beautiful then ever.
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Herb Gardening With your Children

Posted: 21st May 2010 by Sandi in WTF (Fridays)

By: Mary Hanna
Herb gardening with children is a delightful way to engage children in gardening as a hobby. Both your teenagers and young children will enjoy herb gardening. Teach them about the history of herbs and their many uses. Not only will they get a feeling of satisfaction about growing the herbs but they will feel a sense of contribution to the family when the herbs are used in cooking. They will be amazed at what they have accomplished through a mere seed.

For centuries herb gardening has been popular. In addition most of the very popular herbs are disease resistant and can overcome very arid climates. There are two advantages to an herb garden hobby. One, they can be planted indoors at any time and if you want to plant outside they only take a few weeks to sprout giving your children a sense of wonderment quickly. So if the kids are bored during the cold months being cooped in side an indoor herb garden is perfect. Choose fragrant smelling herbs or herbs that will spice up your food. Imagine how much fun they will have when they sprinkle fresh basil from their garden on their pizza.

To begin an herb garden with your children you will need to get some easy to find basic items. Start small with six pots that have holes in the bottom. Have the kids paint the pots for an additional activity. Next you will need either seeds or already started plants from your nursery center or from the internet.

Only a few basic easy to find items are necessary to begin an herb gardening project with your children. The most popular herb plants for children are Lavender, Sage, Mint, Coriander, Basil, Parsley and Oregano. You will need some good potting soil also available at the nursery center. Have on hand some plastic wrap, Popsicle sticks, a marking pen and poster paints if the kids are going to paint the pots.

Once you have gathered your supplies it is time to plant. Fill the pot with soil and have the kids scatter a few seeds over the top (check to make sure the seeds don’t overlap). Have them gently place soil over the seeds and light tamp down. Plant more then a few seeds since some seeds won’t sprout.

Water the soil but don’t drown it. Herbs do no like to have “wet feet”. However do not allow them to dry out. With your marking pen, label the Popsicle stick with the name of the herb and insert into the pot.

To conserve on moisture cover the pot with plastic wrap. Make sure you uncover them for fresh air every other day so mildew cannot form.

Now it is time to find a sunny spot to place your herb garden. Herbs need 4 to 6 hours of sunlight a day. In two to six weeks, depending on the herbs you have chosen, your seeds will begin to germinate. Off with the plastic wrap now that they are ready to grow.

The kids will love watching them grow and smelling their fragrances. It’s time to enjoy your herb garden with your children.

Once the kids have been successful in this project you may wish to branch out and start growing some other herbs. This project of herb gardening with your children will truly inspire your kids with a love and appreciation of gardens and herbs.

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By: jcitnmkt

When it comes to parenting styles, we often find two types of parents – the encourager and the intimidator. An encouraging parent focuses on using positive reinforcements to get their kids to work towards a certain target. An intimidating parent, on the other hand, uses punishments as part of his parenting style to get their kids to conform to a particular action.

Encouragement should not be mixed up with pampering though. Pampering means regularly doing something the child can do for themselves such as fixing breakfast, preparing lunch, or even waking them up. Pampering makes a child lazy and teaches them to take certain things for granted. Don’t make your child overly dependent on you or other people to get things done for him.

With intimidation, a child generally grows up with fear of failure and develops an obsession of reaching the top, even at the expense of others. Others may become fearful of taking chances, unless they are extremely certain that success is achievable. Too much encouragement and your child will become dependent on it may develop the need to keep receiving them. One single criticism and children will become angry and subsequently, start on self-doubt.

Parenting young children is tricky with many fine lines. A good parenting tip is that praising is not always considered encouragement. A child should only be praised if he or she accomplishes something significant. Too much and it fosters too much competiveness and inculcates the fear to fail.

Take note of the parenting law that praising your child should only be done if he truly deserves it. Encouragement does not rely on praises alone. Your kid can tell when your praises mean nothing. Encouragement should place importance on the child’s strengths and assets. Too much praising and your child risks being too accustomed to sweet sugary words. Parents may also get too used to giving out praises when it means nothing.

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Simple Bird Feeder

Posted: 23rd April 2010 by Sandi in WTF (Fridays)
Last week I spruced up the entry way of my home. Well in front of my home I have a large window where my desk looks out into the front yard. In front of the window are three bushes, a palm tree and a bench. Each year I paint my bench to help protect it from the extreme heat we experience here in Arizona. This Year I painted my bench a teal.

The bench looked great and goes well with my Tuscan/ Spanish flair. I moved to Arizona from New Mexico and I have always been surrounded by Spanish culture. These influences inspired my Tuscan/Spanish motif and I love all the rich colors and textures you find in the style. However the bench needed something else, so I made a simple bird feeder.

I went to my Home Improvement Center and bought a plant stand (14”), a plastic plant tray (14”), a colorful pot plate (15”), fern and bird seed. I first dug a hole next to my bench and planted my fern. I then assembled my bird feeder by placing the plant stand over the fern next to my bench; I then placed the plastic tray snug into the holder, then placed the colorful pot plate on top and filled with bird seed.

All the colors work well together and it looks great from the street and my desk. The cats enjoy hours of entertainment with all of the different birds who stop by to eat and the sweet tweets tell me spring his here.

I am Boob Man

Posted: 20th April 2010 by Sandi in Moms Uncensenored
This Onesies is hilarious, cute and comfortable! Black with beanie all 100% organic. This Onesies set is funny and fun to wear, check out other off the wall Onesies like fart factory, rock star, rebel and more! Matching shoes availablehttp://www.lilboyblu.com/item_349/Boob-Man-2-piece-baby-Gift-Set.htm

Price: $25.95

Home Improvements in the Air!

Posted: 16th April 2010 by Sandi in WTF (Fridays)

Well you can tell its spring, the lines are long at Home Improvement Centers with people buying flowers, potting soil and everything else to brighten up their homes. I stopped in to buy some plants and potting soil so I could spruce up my entry way.

Exhibit A (Entry Way)

My entry way was boring and covered with leaves. It needed a little color, a little piazza! I had just stopped at a Garage Sale prior to stopping at my local Home Improvement center and found several different size pots, a yellow flower candle holder, door mat and three hanging clay bull heads. They were perfect to add to my Tuscan/Spanish home feel.

Exhibit B (My Fines)

Here is a picture of my treasures. The best part is they cost me under $15 and they are in great shape. I like Garage selling because I feel I get a great deal and I am helping recycle Items that other wise would end up in a land fill. Not everything needs to be brand new or pricey to look good.

Exhibit C (The final Results)

Much more inviting and I love how it makes my entry area pop! These Items work great and go well with my other plants; I think the cat likes it to.

Unplug and Plug in to life

Posted: 14th April 2010 by Sandi in Moms Uncensenored

Don’t get me wrong “I love” yes “Love” my computer and all its wonders. Blogs, Facebook, Twitter, Myspace, You-tube and other social Medias are a wonderful way to stay connected. TV programs and Apps are so amazing it’s hard to walk away. Biggest Loser, Lost, Dancing with the Stars, Flash Forward and more it’s so hard to resist, I had to have two DVR’s just to insure I could record them all (you never know when you may have to do dinner, really!).

We are so connected, we have become disconnected.

Try walking away from some of these items and allow yourself to unplug. Take a walk with a friend, go window shopping, play a board game with your kids, read a book or just sit and relax. All, yes, all of those things will still be there and the earth will continue to spin.
Memories take longer then 140 characters, Love stories are much more steamier when you’re in them, and kids are sure to provide enough drama to keep any mom entertained.

Tell us what you do to unplug even if it is just for a little while?

Simple Green Parenting Tips

Posted: 26th March 2010 by Sandi in WTF (Fridays)

By: Bounce Energy

I’ve noticed that the topic in everyone’s conversations these days (aside from employment and the economy), is going green. It’s all over – TV, newspapers, magazines – you name it and it probably has something about going green. Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s great. I do think it is important to care for the environment, but everything I hear to do to help seems to be on a larger scale. So it got me thinking, what could I do as a parent to help the environment? Well, I discovered some simple green parenting tips to follow, which can help save the environment.

Tip#1 – Rethink the baby wipes
I was on one of my most favorite sites, babycenter.com, and they had an article on steps to take to go green and something caught my eye. They reported that most baby wipes take several hundred years to break down. To be honest, I never really gave much thought to wipes or the footprint they leave on the environment. I read that on average people use about 5,000 wipes per baby, which means there are a lot of wipes in landfills. So as an alternative, I found that there are companies that have created 100% biodegradable wipes. One company I’ve seen in particular is Nature Babycare (www.naty.com), and they offer a variety of biodegradable products including biodegradable wipes.

Tip #2 – Switch to cloth diapers
According to an article from the Mother Nature Network, kids use an average of eight diapers a day until they are potty-trained. So if you take an average age of 2 ½ years to potty train a child then you are looking at approximately 7,300 used diapers and that is just for one child! Just think of all the diapers out there that are in landfills for years (along with the wipes). An alternative to using disposable diapers are today’s version of cloth diapers. I know what you are probably thinking, “cloth diapers, never”, but the thing that makes it different from our parents’ time is the inserts that fit inside the cloth diapers. A company called gDiapers has created a 100% biodegradable insert that is actually safe to flush down the toilet.

Tip #3 – Purchase wood toys instead of plastic
In the book, Green Parenting, it says that plastic and battery operated toys can contain hazardous materials such as phthalates or plastic softeners. This can be dangerous for many reasons, one primarily because it seems that most babies learn by putting things in their mouths, I can personally attest to this, my child is at this stage and puts everything in her mouth. So the answer to this is to purchase wood toys finished with nontoxic paint instead of the plastic ones. They may not be as shiny or as loud (which actually may be a good thing for parents), but they don’t contain the dangerous toxins which is key. The company Wooden Toys carries over 500 wood items that are each crafted with non-toxic paint and 100% child safe design.

Tip #4 – Toy and clothing swaps
As most parents have probably seen, it is amazing the number of toys, activity centers, and clothes. that are recommended for babies to grow and learn. Personally, my daughter’s clothes and equipment seem to outnumber our belongings by at least two to one, and she is only four months old! Not only are these things generally bulky and take up space, but it can also get expensive keeping up with her development. To try to combat this, I‘ve started to see parents exchanging toys and clothing. This can help save a lot of money plus it can save on storage space.

Tip #5 – Make your own baby food or buy organic
In an article on green parenting called “10 Tips for Green Parenting” they say that “[i]n addition to being better for the environment, natural healthy food from the start reduces the later risk of heart disease, allergies, behavioral problems, and many other ailments”. Whether this is completely true or not, it is something to think about. One way to do this is by making your own baby food. This has been a “hot” topic for many of my friends with babies, and I’ve read that it is pretty easy to make yourself. But if you like the idea but would prefer some assistance to make the job easier, then Williams Sonoma has a product called the Beaba Babycook. It is a steamer, blender, warmer and defroster in one small appliance that makes it easy to prepare fresh, healthy meals for a baby (I haven’t tried it out personally but it looks easy). But if making baby food isn’t your thing you can always purchase organic baby food at your local grocery store, which is also healthy and nutritious.

About the Author

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Getting Your Kids to Eat Better

Posted: 19th March 2010 by Sandi in Moms Uncensenored

By: Genesis Davies

Healthy snacks are almost always refused by today’s savvy kids. I can’t tell you how many times, as a parent, I’ve wished my kids had never seen a cookie or tasted a soda, but there are ways to get kids to eat better.

Even if you aren’t a big fan of the “sneaky food” idea where you make cakes with carrots and zucchini, you can still get your kids to eat. Here are a few tips:

Make it for dip. Kids love dip. They might not be too impressed with veggies and dip (though you can try!) so you might want to try making the dip the healthy part. Mix yogurt or sour cream with pureed cooked carrots and a little liquid cheese for an orange dip, or blend one part cream cheese with two parts sour cream and then blend it with spinach and a little roasted garlic.

Add it to pizza. Pizza isn’t as unhealthy as most people think. In fact, you can make it something even healthier by adding a ton of veggies to it. A great way to do this is to have vegetables on hand, already sliced and ready to go. Then get your kids to help you make the pizza . . . it works best to create individual size pizzas. Ask them to choose three or four veggies to put on their pizza, or show them how to make faces with olive eyes, red pepper mouth, etc.  This will get at least a few veggies on their pizza!

Make a three bite rule. In our house, you can’t say you don’t like something until you’ve tried it. Most kids will reject that first bite just out of principal, so why not make it a three bite rule? They don’t have to be big bites, just a little taste will do. If your child still doesn’t like the food, ask them to describe WHY they dislike it before allowing them to discontinue. For some, this won’t be worth it and they will just eat their food after all.

Respect their tastes. One woman I know let her children choose three foods they didn’t want to eat. They did this each week and she could see at a glance which foods, such as onions, had been on the list nearly permanently and allowed the children to skip those foods. It made for fewer mealtime battles and let her kids have some control over what they ate.

Repeat favorites. There’s no rule saying you have to give your kids a gazillion different greens. If your kids like a couple of fruits and vegetables, let them eat those over and over. Eventually they will expand their horizons and their taste buds.

The big thing is not to get into fights over healthy food. Kids go through stages and if you fight, you will not only turn mealtime into a war zone and possibly turn them off good food for a  very long time, it’s not enjoyable for you, either. So, keep it low key, offer them variety and don’t stress out if your little children refuse to touch a leaf of green . . . just offer them something they will eat.

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City Girl and Her Nature Adventures!

Posted: 5th March 2010 by Sandi in WTF (Fridays)

Okay it has only been a couple of weeks since I started this compost adventure. Boy, it’s going to take some getting used to. First you have to have a small container next to your sink to collect your recycling materials. They have all of these cute mini canisters and decorative jars you can use to disguise the recycled material. It’s a good idea to have one; at first I thought I would just place it on a plate and then take it out to the compost bin. But it was nasty, I did not like looking at egg shells, coffee grounds, tea bags and what ever else I thought was going to be great for the science project in the back yard. So get a container and make it cute, because what’s in it is not.

The next thing I noticed was we wasted a lot of food, especially food that is good for the compost like spinach, carrots, bell peppers, grapes and sprouts. It’s funny I recall requests for these items and promises I will eat them in my lunch next week but here they are stinking up the fridge. However, I don’t see any pudding packs, go-gurt’s, cinnamon rolls or beer left :O)

So, as you can see I have lots of stuff to go into the compost and I’ll drop that stuff in, then give it a turn and put the lid back on to wait another day. Hopefully as the weeks go by I’ll become more conscious of the items we are discarding.

Hip Beanies for Boys!

Posted: 23rd February 2010 by Sandi in Moms Uncensenored

Your Lil boy will not only stand out but will be a trend setter in this 100% cotton distressed beanie by Pink Axle. This black hat with white cross image gives a serious rock-n-roll edge and is lightly distressed for fashion and style. Beanies are the latest fashion trend for boys big or small and will rock any boy’s style!

Lilboyblu offers a variety of styles from cars, motorcycles, eagles and many more.
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City Girl turns Nature Woman

Posted: 19th February 2010 by Sandi in WTF (Fridays)

I am just getting into the “green” life style and I am realizing just how much work and education you need to pull it off. My mother is a nature woman and is always talking about how I need to be more aware of my foot print on this earth. How, it is up to me to provide a better tomorrow for my family not the government or anyone else- just me!

So, I got a compost barrel (box) and I am getting ready to put all of our “household waste” into it and make “Black Gold” which consists of rich decomposed leafy stuff and once living material. These common materials like: leaves, tea bags, egg shells, peels, coffee grounds (and the list goes on) are then place in this box to break down. Once it breaks down I have wonderful rich dirt like substance to fertilize my yard. This helps not only my yard but reduces the amount of trash going to the landfills.

I guess let the adventure begin, I have never been too concerned about saving the earth. Not because I am selfish or to good to do so, it’s just been very overwhelming and time consuming which with children and work it has always seamed to difficult to take on. Well not any more, I am going to teach myself how to become an earth friendly person. I’ll keep you posted on my journey and hopefully help change my small part of the world.

Compost Box

Say NO to Super size it….

Posted: 18th February 2010 by Sandi in Moms Uncensenored

We are very busy these days running our kids from one activity to the next. It is not always possible to have a well balanced, sit down meal with our families when you have homework, showers, and yes downtime from a long day of school and work. However all that fast food is catching up to our kids.

Facts:
Children are now developing type 2 diabetes before the age of 18. This disease used to affect our parents and grandparents. It was considered an aging disease. Reason maybe due to the increase in sodas, and high levels of sugar in our foods.

Fast Food contains more sodium than home made meals which lead’s to high blood pressure and heart related issues.

Vitamin deficiency is also common due to the lack of vitamins found in fast food products.

What to do:
We are not going to stop eating out and enjoying our fast food. Frankly, it’s quick, convenient, cheap, and it taste good! So, let’s make healthier choices when it comes to fast food. Ask for less or no cheese, order salads w/low fat dressing, single meat vs. double meat, grilled vs. fried and read calorie content before ordering. Make fast and convenient foods at home and minimize the number of days you eat out. Take healthy snacks with you to activities such as; PB&J sandwiches, apples, grapes, string cheese, jerky sticks or pepperoni’s. This will tie you over until you get home. Consider making meals on the weekend and freezing so you can pull out dinner and warm it up.

Whatever you do don’t Super size your meals. Stop and take a look at the size of those portions and ask yourself do you or your kids really need a bucket of soda, a double meat sandwich or fist size order of fries. Isn’t life worth more…. I think so!

Homework Storage

Posted: 14th January 2010 by Sandi in Moms Uncensenored

If you are like many parents you have a drawer, box or several locations storing your child’s school memories. When you go to throw something away, your child makes you feel guilty by telling you “That was my favorite project or I was saving that one” So, you put it back and continue to collect years of school work. But what’s a Mom to do?

Well, after a few years of guilt and running out of storage. I started to look at creative ways to store my children’s school memories. It was important to me to handle this situation with care. I realized that each piece of paper held a challenge, a need for concentration and sometimes caused struggle. Yet, each grade or make indicated they made it, and accomplished the skill required to move forward. I decided I could not hold onto every little piece of paper but I wanted to hold and honor as much of it as I could.

Here are a few suggestions on how to keep your child’s school years organized without it over taking your home.

Report Cards, Progress Reports & Awards:
Store report cards in a decorative accordion file folder with a tie string. Label each section with grade and school year (Kindergarden-2009-2010). Place report cards, progress reports and awards for that year in order. An accordion file folder has twelve months enough slots to cover kindergarten to graduation!

Homework/ Miscellaneous:
I have a large entertainment center that has two drawers opposite of each other. I have one labeled for each child. Throughout the year they place their homework and other important papers in their drawers. At the end of the year, usually four weeks into summer I have them take out their drawers and we spend several hours going through each paper reminiscing about what went on during that school year. We have a lot of fun talking about each piece of paper and it is enjoyable to watch them relive the challenges, good times and sometimes silly times that happen while they were at school. I ask them to save 5-10 pieces of school work from each subject that they feel depicts the year. Sometimes we have a few extras, but the majority of the papers they are ready to throw away. I then take those papers and place them in a binder by subject, grade and year. I decorate the dividers with sayings or clippings of newspaper events. I use 3-inch binders and I have been able to get all of elementary (K-6th) into one binder. I then place them on our book shelve so anyone can take it down and take a walk through memory lane.

Great Ideas for Sharing Now:
Consider having a wall of fame in your laundry room. I have a large corkboard that covers half of one of my walls. It is decorated and its header reads “Nikko & Briar’s Hall of Fame” I place awards, certificates, art and other things that make them feel proud on this board. We exit and enter through our laundry room so everyone sees the board several times a day. When my kids where younger they would bring visitors to our laundry room to see the Hall of Fame Board, they where very proud of it’s the nice thing about the location of the board was that it did not have to be pretty and organized all the time.

Art:

Display Art- Have your child date and sign their art. Place each piece on the corkboard for one month. Then remove the art and place it in your child’s drawer for storage. Rotate Art on the Hall of Fame board each month. If you really like the piece, frame it and make it a permanent piece of Art on your walls.

Calendar/Personalize Cards:
With today’s technology you can scan in your child’s art work and create holiday calendars or personalize cards. If you’re computer doesn’t have the ability to handle this project you can use services like kodakgallery.com, vista print, or staples. What a great way to share your child’s art with family and friends. Image how proud your kids will be when they send calendars to grandma, knowing every page has a copy of their art work on it.

Take a Picture:
Take a picture of each piece of art work and then place it in a scrap book. This will take up less space and the picture will last longer then the project it’s self. Give each piece a title, description, date and year. This will condense the art work and once filled you can consider having the scrap book made into a book. Making a great coffee table book!

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The Big Kid Dream Room!

Posted: 17th December 2009 by Sandi in Moms Uncensenored

If you’re reading this, chances are Junior has been begging you to get rid of the Winnie the Pooh characters gracing every square inch of his room. Redecorating can be a daunting – and expensive – task but it doesn’t have to be! You can enlist your child’s help and ideas for creating a personalized space all their own and not break the bank in the process.

Before you get started get rid of all the remnants of babyhood. I know, I know, you won’t want to throw out a thing, but wipe the tears, grab a Rubbermaid tub, and toss it all in! Remember: This is a new phase, not the end of anything, so approach it with joy and fun – and a clean slate.

Gallery wall:
The idea is to have a space to display art – a blast for any kid to have. You can go about this in a few different ways, so pick whichever way (or combine them) works for your home. You will create an ever-changing wall of fun and art on places such as an entire wall, part of a wall, or on a closet door. If you choose to use a wall line it with small shelves bought from a craft store (usually around $5 each, unfinished). Spray paint the shelves in a rainbow of colors and fill them with art supplies.

Chalkboard paint:
This is paint that mimics a chalkboard once painted on the wall. This is a permanent option until you paint over it.

Peel & stick chalkboard or dry erase board:
There are adhesive options that peel & stick (Google “wallies”). They come in sections and can be cut to fit. Remember that they are adhesive, so can damage the wall underneath when removed. They make these in shapes as well, such as clouds or animals, so it would be really fun to place them in various points around the room.

Magnet boards:
You can buy magnet boards and place fun magnets to display art, schoolwork, or notes. You can also affix a large piece of tin or light metal to achieve the same affect.

Corkboard:
There are different types of corkboard but the easiest is to buy it framed at a local office supply store. You can also buy rolls of corkboard that can be adhered to the wall – very permanent and can be tough to remove, but very cool once in place!Create a “Showcase” with the corkboard or magnetic board to showcase the current art piece(s). Use wooden letters above to spell out “Kayleigh’s Art” or “Graham’s Gallery”.

Personalize the space:
Go to your local craft store and buy some wooden letters. You can spell your child’s name or whatever they would like as the theme. For example, if you want to create a themed room you can buy blocks that spell out “Art” and have an art section, “Sleep” for over the bed, “Clothes” or “Dressing Room” for the closet. Buy some acrylic paints and paint them with your child. (Hint: Acrylic will wash off hands but not out of clothes, but is the best to use for wood.)

Create a personalized quilt or blanket:
You can buy fun blocks of fabric and create them together using paint, sewing, markers or finger paints. This will create a keepsake for the child – or for the parent! Once you have enough blocks decorated they can be sewn together to create a great wall hanging, too. This does require some sewing skills – glue and a stapler won’t work!

Buy some inexpensive white or solid-colored throw pillows:
Buy some fun stencils and stencil paint and personalize them with your child’s name (make sure it’s fabric paint). Use the same stencils and paint and personalize lamp shades or curtain swags.

Have your child create some original art pieces and frame them to be placed around the room. You can also create one of your own to give to your child to hang along side.

Use polymer clay and together create door and drawer pulls for the room. This is a more adventurous option, but you should be able to find a kit or How-To book at the craft store.

You can use any of the above suggestions and put your own spin on it. Get creative! Browse websites for ideas and realize that there’s not much you can buy that you can’t create yourself. Throughout this task remember to have fun! Let your child help with all of the stages of decoration and listen to what they want to have at the end. Your child will feel invested in the space and proud of her accomplishments once it’s all complete, and you will get some really great quality time together and a big kid room where everyone can feel proud.

About the Author:Jennifer Kirkpatrick is a mom turned entrepreneur who creates and sells unique items for kids of all ages. Visit her online store Pipsqueak Boutique for great gifts for boys and gifts for girls. And check out her new clothing line, Define*Me Clothing for fun personalized kids clothes._

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